227 Ways to Unleash the Sex Goddess Within - Hardcover

In fact, your Inner Sex Goddess is a boundless source of sexual energy and charisma. Unashamed and regally proud of her sexuality, she understands that feeling and being sexy is a natural way for a woman to nourish her spirit and learn to love the ecstasies of her body.

Your Inner Sex Goddess actually lives in the vivid sensitivities of your body. She is there when you appreciate the look of candlelight on the curve of your breast, the smell of a gardenia in your hair, the taste of wine on your lips, the feel of sun or silk on your skin, the sound of sultry jazz or samba music, the luxury of a hot bubble bath or a full-body massage, the delicious flushes and tingles of self-pleasuring or lovemaking. These physical sensations are doorways to your rich inner world of lush romance and hot libido.

My Story

I had a very strict and sheltered upbringing that did not include getting information about sex, although I always suspected that something mysterious and potentially dangerous or enjoyable (both equally discouraged) lurked beneath the currents of everyday life. During high school I necked and petted with my boyfriends, but genital contact was so out of the question that I didn't even think about it.

Then, finally, at age nineteen, I had intercourse for the first time--a somewhat boring encounter with a steady boyfriend that produced the required bloody sheet, but not much in the way of passion, excitement, or romance. Subsequent boyfriends helped me see that sex could be a lot sexier, but my eyes weren't truly opened to the sensuality and power I owned for myself (and which I could use to light all sorts of flashy sparks in men) until several years later when I discovered. . .

A Few of the "Ways"

#59. According to Oriental erotic texts, a woman's upper lip is directly connected to her clitoris. While massaging your pubis or vaginal lips, try biting your upper lip, or run the fingernails of your other hand over it, to send tingly signals to the rosebud you're about to touch.

#148. Insert a fingertip to pinpoint your G-spot and then vibrate it by placing your vibrator on the part of your finger, knuckle, or hand that remains outside.

#199. Give your man a tactile and sensual thrill by asking him to lick your fingers while you massage your hottest erogenous zones.